- Don't brag! A few mentions of travel, accomplishments or new purchases are okay, but keep them to a minimum.

- Talk about something that inspired you this year. Perhaps a great book, movie or CD.

- Describe something truly funny that happened to your family (the more self-deprecating the better).

- Speak to the things that made you grateful this year.

- Praise someone outside your family that made a big difference in your life.

- Share an idea that would benefit your recipients, like a wonderful genealogy website or an amazing recipe.

- Lastly, make sure to proof your letter carefully!